The Forced Bi Fantasy

If you'll indulge me (and let's be honest, why else would you be here?), then permit both this observation and prepare yourself for a little personal housekeeping:

I am retiring the term forced bi from your vocabulary, your internet searches, and, if I have anything to say about it, your mind.

You know you want a bisexual experience. I know you want it. I suspect there are even a few other people in your life who have noticed.

You may even tell yourself that you're not made for sucking cock. Spoiler alert: you are. And no one is forcing you.

So lean into it wholeheartedly.  You yourself are the one requesting the experience; you are reserving my time, reserving a special stud's time, establishing your boundaries, and most importantly, footing the bill.

This is not a random act of kindness bestowed upon you. You are making it happen.

I am not here to drag you kicking and screaming toward some mysterious erotic destiny. I am here to cultivate your appetite, curate the experience, and give you a place where you can finally stop pretending you don't know what turns you on. As Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart said, you know it when you see it.

Perhaps you like the little fiction of resistance. Perhaps you want to tell yourself that you're doing it for me. Perhaps you want to look me in the eye and insist, right up until the moment you can't quite maintain the argument anymore, that this was never your idea.

That's fine; I can play along.

Underneath the roleplay is the true prize, and that is your willingness. And it’s the part that forced allows you to shy away from. A convenient little word that absolves you of your choice.

But that is the very part I want you to own. Not because I need to convince you. Not because I need to coax you into wanting something you don't want. Because you already came here wanting it. And I find that considerably more interesting than pretending you had no idea what you were doing.

Because knowing yourself, knowing what you want, asking for it, and then getting it? There's nothing hotter than that.